September 5th, 2018

Hello my beautiful UWU’s! September 5th, 2018 was a memorable day for me, I have gotten into the worst girl drama in my whole entire life 😓 Yesterday was the worst day for me that happened throughout the whole month 😥 Besides getting into an unnecessary girl drama, my day has been great, I found some memorable friends and friends who stood by me during this. I also found friends who will listen to you and hear you explain your whole story and give you amazing pieces of advice. UWU’s! FIND FRIENDS WHO ARE GOING TO STAND UP FOR YOU! You might not find those friends at first, but sooner or later, you will realize those people have been beside you through your hardest and happiest times 💚 What happened to me yesterday made me realize a few advice or points that I will like to make for those who are struggling to maintain a friendship.

First tip: Find friends who are loyal – having loyal friends mean a lot because you think you haven’t been in a drama or a problem so you don’t need loyal friends but being loyal is an important character ☺️

Second tip: Find friends who will stand up for you – having someone defend you in a situation makes you feel nice, friends who will stand up for you when someone is talking smack about you behind your back. Of course, you have to be able to do the same for them as well 😇

Third tip: Confrontation – if you know that one of your trusted friends is talking smack about you or not keeping their promise, confront them nicely, don’t lose your temper. Although its hard, we have to keep the air calm. Confront them nicely with evidence and proof can make your statement a lot stronger, instead of saying “I know you were talking smack about me” say “Hey, can I talk to you about something? I seem to have realized you have been talking smack about me behind my back and I don’t think its very nice.” Stay calm 🤗

I hope my three tips have helped you, if you still need more advice or just want someone to hear you out, I’m always here. I will share my username for Instagram and email down below and from there you can dm me or email me 💚

Email: mylilkpopkingdom@gmail.com

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